You live your soul with your husband for many years, and then, like a bolt from the blue, you will know that he has a mistress.
At one fine moment, your mind strikes the idea that your husband is cheating on you. Panic, anger, resentment. What to do? First calm down. It needs a clear head. The situation is certainly terrible, but not fatal.
First you need to find out as much as possible. How long have they got it? Who is she? What do you do? How is she actually different from you? Only need to know, of course, not her husband. Do not worry, the world is not without good people, let anyone want to open your eyes to the truth.
But it’s not worth wasting time either. Husband is better not to let know that you know everything. Of course, I want to throw a scandal, break the dishes on the floor, so that it does not seem to him enough. But be a wise woman. From the scandalous wife, he will run much faster.
We need to find out how serious they are. To do this, you need to know how long this criminal relationship began. If their relationship lasts for more than three months, and in your family there are no changes, his attitude towards you has not changed for the worse. So you can calm down a little. Usually, if men are going to leave the family, they do it right away, during the first time. And then they understand why they need to change something, if they are satisfied with everything.
Next you need to look at yourself in the mirror. It may, of course, that you are all so well-groomed and beautiful, but as practice shows, men most often cheat on wives who do not look after their appearance. Therefore, lovely and expensive, legs in hands and on shops, in beauty shop.
No, you can, of course, even more limp. Or dismiss work, they say, no time. But now you are driven by the desire to save the family, and get rid of the hated mistress.
The second step should be something extraordinary. That is what the husband does not expect from you and does not expect. Better yet, make him worry. It would be nice to disappear somewhere for the whole day, turn off the phone, let it look for you with dogs.
And then he will declare home in an unknown car, at the wheel of which a handsome man will sit. Let this is your old friend or classmate, the main husband so that he does not know. He should think that he has a potential rival. This will ignite his fervor. Leaves a sense of competition and ownership. How is it on his property dared to someone else.
Let him take cares, this is just for you. What kind of lover there is, if here, my wife has forgotten about me, or maybe she has found a lover for herself. No, we must act here.
In general, think, look for clever plans. But, just do not let everything take its course. Unless, of course, you want to save the family.
