When creating a young family, it is sometimes difficult to properly build the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law. There can be many reasons: from elementary jealousy to unwillingness to meet one another, even in small things. Over time, resentment builds up and relationships become worse and worse. Blinded by hatred for each other, women do not notice the suffering of those closest to them and continue to wage a "war", which sometimes comes to the point of absurdity. Maybe it’s worth stopping before it’s too late and return peace, peace and a friendly atmosphere to your family? The Women's Opinion portal decided to find out how Russian daughter-in-law relates to their mother-in-law.
The survey revealed that 34.1% of Russians consider their relationship with their mother-in-law normal, although there are unpleasant moments between them. In any, even a very friendly family, there are quarrels, but what without them. Relations without a single quarrel rather indicate indifference to each other than mutual love. The main thing is that the clashes do not leave an unpleasant residue in the soul and do not accumulate there in the form of grievances, which over time will develop into hatred. Some of the women interviewed live separately from each other.
33.2% of Russian women happily reported that they have a good, friendly relationship with her husband’s mother. True, in the future it became clear that daughter-in-law live separately from their mother-in-law and see their second mothers quite rarely. “I have good relations with my mother-in-law, but I would not be able to live with her,” the women said and added: “We rarely see each other, so there are no conflicts.” The fact that the relationship is good, no doubt pleases, but still, somehow sad at heart and anxious at heart.
Remarkable relationships with mother-in-law in 12.1% of the fair sex. These ladies consider the mother-in-law not a stranger to a woman, but a native, her second mother. Moreover, many Russians said that her husband’s mother became closer and closer to her own for them. Unfortunately, such answers are very rare, although it is very nice to hear about good, truly kindred feelings for a stranger.
12.2% of respondents consider their relationship to be bad rather than good. The most interesting thing is that not a single woman wants to somehow improve this relationship, to make any compromise or try to become somehow closer to the woman who gave birth and raised their beloved husband.
10.2% of Russians literally hate their mother-in-law. Of course, such a relationship has its own reasons, it is possible that it is very significant, only if this hatred brings happiness to the family, does it bring joy and peace to other family members, it is difficult to say.
The survey showed that most Russians treat their husbands' mothers well, as they live separately. Really big, friendly families in which representatives of several generations lived in peace, love and harmony, have sunk into oblivion? Are comfortable living conditions leading to the fact that not only family ties, but also the inner world of man are collapsing? Hatred is a terrible feeling, hatred of a loved one is doubly worse.
